Monday, February 24, 2014

Seeing What You Want to See vs. Seeing What is There

After the quick crash and burn with the Pace Setter (i.e. finding out he was a jerk in a self-proclaimed good-guys disguise), I've been hit doubly hard with the fallout from what happened with Chap. Why did I let it go so far? Why do I focus on the potential and what I want to see, and neglect what I'm really seeing?

This absolutely fantastic blog post on Tiny Buddha sums it all up: Stop Attracting Unhealthy Relationships: 3 Promises to Make to Yourself

I highly recommend checking it out - a quick read that is spot on!


  1. I have wanted to post a comment for some time now but decided to finally do it today. You have no idea how much your blog has helped me. I am very grateful that I found it last year and I look forward to each and every email you send out. I can relate to you in many ways and you have no idea how your situations mirror some of mine. It seems we are kindred spirits. Just wanted to say you have made a difference in my life and I appreciate it very much!!! Thanks and know you have a "team member" who cheers you along & prays for your health and happiness daily!

  2. Thank you for your kind and generous comment, it brought tears to my eyes! I'm so glad that my experiences are a comfort to you, as your comment is a comfort to me! - Diana