After a month of getting to know Aquaman as friends, I’ve sadly come to realize that he is in such a bad spot right now that nothing more can come from this. I have made many excuses for guys who were ‘not whole’ (to be politically correct) in the past and I can’t afford to do so anymore.
Need to call it as it is! Once you know what a person is capable of, regardless of life circumstance, can that really change? Even when you go through hard times, you know what you are or are not capable of, it’s in the fabric of who you are. I don’t want to hang with guys who are capable of being crazy!
Which brings me to the bigger picture of this - are all guys crazy? Is it the case that the 20-somethings are just too young to commit (or as a generation, are approaching life as non-committal across the board) and the 30-somethings who have not been married can’t be in a relationship because they’ve developed a trait or habit that is relationship-inhibiting (most commonly that trait is known as ‘enormous ego’ as they’ve deemed themselves too good to be with anyone but a 25 year old swimsuit model)?!?
As the weather warms up, I’ve been spending my time outdoors and focused on Grace. She is, by far, the coolest person I know (under 3 ft. tall) and pure joy to be around. Maybe Mr. Not-Crazy-Able-To-Commit-While-Still-Having-A-Personality-And-Hot-Body may pop up one of these days but until then I’ll spend my time on things that are pure joy!
ps Dear Mr. Not-Crazy-Able-To-Commit-While-Still-Having-A-Personality-And-Hot-Body - feel free to show up soon, as I need a suitable escort to my birthday festivities next month!
This blog is my journey to Becoming Wonder Woman through the trials of divorce, lessons of a being new mom, challenges of a demanding career, and experiments as a single mom.
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